Daren Bradshaw
Blog #3
Conflict Styles in Romantic Comedies
There are so many
movies that show all different types of conflict styles and alternate ways to
handle certain situations. For my movie I choose Failure to Launch, a romantic comedy about a thirty-something
year old slacker that suspects his parents of setting him up with his dream
girl so he'll finally vacate their home. The movie is full of different types
of conflict not just between him and his parents, but between him and the woman
that he “thinks” he loves. For example, when Matthew
McConaughey comes home and his dad has turned his bed room into the “naked room”.
He is upset while simultaneously being puzzled as to why his dad need a “naked”
room. In the movie you see him handle
this in an avoidance style of handling the conflict. This is when you simply avoid the issue. You aren’t
helping the other party reach their goals, and you aren’t assertively pursuing
your own. Another instance of a conflict style in this movie is when he
finds out that his parents paid Sarah Jessica Parker to be
his girlfriend to get him to finally spread his wings. When this happens he
initially plays it cool as if nothing were wrong, eventually erupting and giving
into his parent wishes. Though it doesn’t appear to be I feel that this is
somewhat a compromise. This is a “lose-lose” scenario where neither
party really achieves what they want. This requires a moderate level of
assertiveness and cooperation. These are just a few examples of conflict styles
in this movie that really stood out to me.