Blog #5: Humor
My favorite comedian right now is Amy Schumer. I like her use of
aggressive and self-defeating humor, and although these two types of humor are
sometimes found to be negative, I enjoy stand-up that pulls from these humor
categories. Amy is an extremely popular comedian right now, especially after
her movie Trainwreck, but even though she is really popular she does get some
heat from people who do not like her rather vulgar jokes that are shown through
aggressive and self-defeating humor. As much as I want to argue with those who
don’t like her, I decided to take a step back, and remove my bias of liking her
as a comedian, and see what does go wrong with aggressive and self-defeating
humor (when it’s not making you cry from laughing). In one article I read, it
brings up the point about when a significant other uses these two more negative
types of humor, it can put a strain on their relationship and affect the other
person. When I thought about this personally, I did realize that this type of humor
can really come off offensive and cruel, and even though I think it is funny
when Amy Schumer uses it, if my boyfriend chose to, I would be taken aback.
They go on to say that their study on the negative types of humor, “…indicated
that individuals who reported using more aggressive humor were more likely to
have partners who were embarrassed by them.” (Masui, 2016) I would never want
to embarrass my significant other through my humor, because I think humor is a
trait that a lot of people fall in love with about a person, it would be a
shame for that to be a downfall in a relationship. Not only has my research
shown me that these two types of negative humor causes a rift in romantic
relationships, it can also cause issues personally, “a detrimental effect on
well-being when a maladaptive style (self-defeating, aggressive) was higher”.
(Maiolino, 2016) Knowing that these types of humor can affect my well-being is
a big concern. I don’t think I will stop enjoying Amy Schumer’s work, but
knowing these studies and being more aware how humor effects your life on a
wider scale imagined will be helpful.
I also decided that the Humor blog would be a good opportunity to
interview a leader. I chose to interview one of the officers in my women’s
organization. I chose Lynsey because I find her quite humorous but she is also
a powerful leader for the group of women in my organization. We discussed what
category of humor she relates with and if she found that type of humor was
positive in her leadership role. I felt her answer nicely represented the flip
side of what I have discussed earlier in my blog, the positive side of humor
and how it can help us in our daily lives. Her answer was as followed:
“I think that I would identify with the self-enhancing category of
humor. I like to use the hardships that us college students go through every
day to lighten the mood at serious meetings. We are all busy, struggling with
schedules and classes, and juggling school and social lives, I find it
something that we all have in common that we can turn into a joke that we can
laugh about. I think it really helps with bonding, when girls in our organization
can connect over something stressful in their life through joking about it. I like
to use this style as a leader, and be a help to the girls to make them laugh
and de-stress.”
Work Cited:
Maiolino,
Nadia, and Nick Kuiper. “Examining the Impact of A Brief Humor Exercise on
Psychological Well-Being.” Translational
Issues in Psychological Science 2.1 (2016): 4-13. PsychINFO. Web. 10 Apr. 2016
Masui,
Keita, and Mitsuhiro Ura. “Aggressive Humor Style and Psychopathy: Moderating
Effects of Childhood Socioeconomic Status.” Translational
Issues in Psychological Science 2.1 (2016): 4-13. PsychINFO. Web. 10 Apr. 2016